ShareMyHeart Blog

ShareMyHeart - Valentine's Hero #1

So here we are, a few weeks before Valentine's Day...a day most guys forget until the LAST minute, at which point they RUN out to get something "Romantic" for their special woman so they don't get labeled insensitive and uncaring. 

What do I do, what do I do?  Flowers?  Easy, spend a few bucks, maybe even get a card at Safeway...that will save you from being labeled a jerk.  You will probably get a nice smile out of that approach. 

Then there is the "Night Out", take her to dinner, a movie, spend some time with her.  Unfortunately, this is only what the guys who aren't married yet do, because they are still hoping for something more, so they are willing to put out a little more...You guys go for it!  Take the extra time, spend some money, she'll love it. 

No, this message is for you other guys, the ones in the long term relationships, three years plus...you guys who have forgotten how much you wanted her in your life and now take her for granted.  Wake up William!  For you guys, here's a little reminder...

SHE DOESN'T WANT FLOWERS ANYMORE!  SHE DOESN'T WANT THE BOX OF CANDY!  WHAT SHE REALLY WANTS IS TO BE DEEPLY APPRECIATED FOR ALL SHE HAS DONE FOR YOUR LIFE!

What she really wants is for you to take the time to tell her how much she matters to you.  How do you do this?  Write her a love letter...need help, visit ShareMyHeart.com.  Do it now, she deserves it!

Every woman wants a Hero.  Are you hers?

Choose Love...and Leap...

Yours to count on,

  Stephen Miller, Founder, ShareMyHeart.com
  write me at stephen@whatmomwants.com 

ShareMyHeart - I Leap For Love

This past week was very challenging.  I made it that way.

I like to set goals each week and then push myself to accomplish them.  I don't always achieve everything I set out to do, BUT I achieve what I need to do.  And this past week, I did what I needed to keep ShareMyHeart.com moving towards success. 

What I feel best about is how I kept my attitude positive.  I worked every day to STOP my mind when it headed into dark corners of doubt and refocused my thoughts on positive outcomes.  I constantly reminded myself of how blessed I am and at how incredibly wonderful my life is. 

I kept choosing LOVE...and when I created the mental illusion that I had some chasm of fear to get over, I LEAPED FOR LOVE...

Choose Love...and Leap...

Yours to count on,

  Stephen Miller, Founder, ShareMyHeart.com
  write me at stephen@whatmomwants.com 

ShareMyHeart - Moving Up The Mountain

The past few days have been very tough going.  I had some BIG Questions to answer...the biggest was whether or not to keep going with my business, ShareMyHeart.com.  Over the past 9 months, I have stretched my financial resources to the breaking point...Did I go too far?

Very unsettling and extremely emotional.  I felt like I was standing on the side of a mountain in a very severe storm which threatened to blow me away at any moment...

I prayed...lots.  I wrote my previous BLOG entry about Two Choices - Love or Fear?

I chose Love. That made all the difference.

It is several days later now.  The storm inside and out has quieted.  Now a gentle rain washes away the crazy emotions that were bashing my guts.  I am moving up the mountain again.  Small flowers peek out from under rocks, reminders of the beauty that is always around me.  I see a patch of blue sky ahead...

I am Loved...as you are...always...

Keep going...

Yours to count on,

  Stephen Miller, Founder, ShareMyHeart.com
  write me at stephen@whatmomwants.com 

ShareMyHeart.com - Only Two Choices: Love or Fear?

Looking back at 2007, I am mostly struck with how blessed my life has been.  I chose to let go of the security of a full-time job doing something I was very good at, and jumped into the wild world of internet retail marketing, which I knew virtually nothing about and which offered no "security" at all.

I am so glad I jumped, even though it scared the beejeesus out of me!

Letting go of my security blanket opened up a whole new world of possibilities and ultimately led me to a much simpler and fuller life doing what my heart really wants...being with my family and being of service to others.

Of course, there is another side to this story...this past year was an almost daily challenge to surmount obstacles I did not see coming, especially the ones in my head. The whole process of creating a new business from nothing was much more involved than I could have imagined...fortunately.  But I kept going, and EVERY day I was guided or helped in ways that moved my Dream forward.  Ideas, people, money, whatever I needed, somehow it happened.  To be sure, ShareMyHeart.com happened because I worked very, very hard, but I was working for something I believed in, and still do.  I believe that by helping others Share Their Hearts, I help them get the Love They Want.

I have come to realize that my Life Journey really comes down to two choices -

Do I want Fear or Love to run my Life?

I definitely let Fear run me many times.  So I stopped and looked at what I was really afraid of.  I was afraid of losing a lot of money.  I was afraid of failure.  I was afraid of letting people down.

I was afraid I would not be loved...

Then I sat in a 600 year old cathedral in Mexico and talked with God, Be Still and Know..., and I got very clear that my Fears were total illusions.  Love is the only reality.  God Loves Me.  Always.  Infinitely.  Forever.  And I look back now at all those fearful times that I got through and all the love that has flowed into my life this past year...Wow!  Wow!  Super Wow!!!

There is only Love...And Love is my only Choice for 2008.

May you have the Happiest of New Years,

Yours to count on,

 

  Stephen Miller, Founder
  ShareMyHeart.com
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